Notes from Your Acupuncturist

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Alexa Bradley Hulsey
Sep 3, 2021
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Dear Patient,

Sometimes I feel more like a bartender than an acupuncturist.

A bartender has their regulars. I do too.

A good bartender knows their customers’ preferences. I know who among my patients hates ear needles, or loves the point between the eyebrows, or always flinches when I needle the top of their foot, or probably will want two blankets.

A bartender never stops moving during a shift. Same.

A bartender has to wake up drunk people who have passed out on the bar. I have to wake up relaxed people who have blissed out in a chair.

When a customer comes in and pours their heart out, the bartender listens, reflects back, and offers the comfort of a cold beer or a shot of whiskey. I offer needles.

Years ago I realized my success as an acupuncturist was in no small part because I act more like a bartender than a doctor. It’s more comfortable for me this way—acting like a doctor felt inauthentic, like wearing an ill-fitting white lab coat. Now I’m just me, Alexa, your acupuncturist. I enjoy my work a lot more and I get better results.

It makes me wonder how many people out there in their working life are trying to play a role they aren’t suited for. Do you need to shed your ill-fitting white lab coat?

Love and gratitude,

Your Acupuncturist

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Andy Wegman
Sep 3, 2021Liked by Alexa Bradley Hulsey

Great one!

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Micki LaVres
Sep 3, 2021Liked by Alexa Bradley Hulsey

I just love everything you have to say. I wish you were in my area.

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